As most folks do when they get married and begin family life, the things of singlehood fade away, and it was such with me. As my marriage came apart due to the onlsaught of outside forces, I began to miss the person that I was before. But 34 years of couplehood does not die easily. I was a VERY social butterfly in my "yout", and have fond memories of those activities. Now that I'm on my own, I am at a loss as to how to get started again. Well, a coworker invited me to a local watering hole where a friend of hers was bartending last night, and I went. I had a pretty nice time too. I think I'll be ok...