kmakar
Janitor
We were not close, but she was my Dad's youngest sister (11 years younger than my Dad) and the last of their family to pass. She was 81.
As her last living blood relatives (my brothers and I), we have to communicate with the state of Connecticut as to her wishes to be cremated.
My Dad and Mom were going to be cremated, but it wasn't something I could deal with or wanted.
I'm old school and not knowing where my Dad was (physically in the ground), it was not something I could accept, so they changed, and when my Dad died we had a traditional burial.
I know where he is, and I watched him lowered into the ground and he has large headstone showing he existed and mattered and was deeply loved (at least by me). My Mom will be buried next to him when her time comes.
Sorry, but this is bringing up some feelings that are still tough to deal with. I still miss my Dad a great deal.
Thanks for listening.
As her last living blood relatives (my brothers and I), we have to communicate with the state of Connecticut as to her wishes to be cremated.
My Dad and Mom were going to be cremated, but it wasn't something I could deal with or wanted.
I'm old school and not knowing where my Dad was (physically in the ground), it was not something I could accept, so they changed, and when my Dad died we had a traditional burial.
I know where he is, and I watched him lowered into the ground and he has large headstone showing he existed and mattered and was deeply loved (at least by me). My Mom will be buried next to him when her time comes.
Sorry, but this is bringing up some feelings that are still tough to deal with. I still miss my Dad a great deal.
Thanks for listening.